The Twelve I Know

January draws in cold fingers, toes curl in boots that crunch through ice crusted puddles. The year's account is full again, flush with time. Couch cushions are scattered with seed catalogs and gym contracts and dreams of a better future. This is the year!

February is melting sweet. A blushing coquette with hearts in her eyes. The youngest sister out of twelve. Scented with roses and chocolate and speaking in poems, love, LOVE, spring will be here soon.

March is green upon green with clover and moss and bursting leaves everywhere! The spring of deception has come, whispering stories of growing things and slumbering gardens that need tending. The skies tumble grey and blue and the nights bite young leaves with crystalline teeth.

April showers wash the wind clean and draw pink tulips and yellow daffodils from dense black loam. Pastel blossoms line sidewalks and store aisles in fragrant displays. Life reborn! Baby chicks and baby bunnies and eggs to treasure in woven baskets. Tuck seeds into the earth with hopes to see them again soon.

May is filled with celebrations! Ribbons weave and dance through the air, flowers crown laughing heads and fill baskets, vases, and mothers' arms. Fiesta! Picnic blankets form a patchwork quilt of color in the parks. Time for Renewal and Remembrance.

June sweeps in wreathed in lace. Clouds of white clover blossoms fill the emerald fields, fallen from the cerulean sky. White lace flowers and white lace dresses. Roses scent warming breezes and the hands of blushing brides. The promise month ends the beginning of the year and begins the hope of forever.

July is the scent of BBQ smoke in the afternoon. Sunsets long after bedtime. It is sulfur from sparkling fireworks, popping and whistling down the street. It is a chlorine breeze blowing off the public pool. Cicada songs. Bleached blue skies. Coconut oil on golden skin. A cool drink of water straight from the hose.

August sighs dryly in late summer winds. Creosote hangs heavy as thunderstorms roll along the horizon. Bats and vultures cartwheel through the sky. Camping trips and shopping trips, one last hurrah before school. The countdown to fall begins.

September is gold edged leaves and gold edged grass and gold edged twilight. Cool evenings and clear days. The crinkle of brown paper lunch bags, the scent of pencil shavings and new shoes. Apples and squash and spice.

October is open windows. Curtains billowing in a cool breeze. Pumpkins and cinnamon and chocolate. Transformation. The crunch of brown leaves. Haunted houses. Hands slimy with jack-o-lantern guts. Magic rising.

November is apple pie and pumpkin pie and roasting things and real mashed potatoes. Sweaters! Furniture polish and family gatherings. Melancholy promises to be closer next year. Secret shopping trips, and dreams of joyful eyes filled with wonder.

December appears with twinkling lights and peppermint kisses. Red and green and blue and silver. Tinsel spangled rooms filled with hope and nostalgia. Merry songs jingle jangle through glowing golden windows and off the lips of wide eyed children in puffs of cloudy breath. The passing year is launched into the infinite on the backs of rockets. Time to begin again.

Where is Happiness?

Where is happiness?

 

She asks the wall. The wall says it is in maintaining the boundaries and holding the roof up. The wall keeps pressing the world out.

 

Where is happiness?

 

She asks the air. The air says it is in traveling the world and all the breathing bodies in it. The air keeps traveling by.

 

Where is happiness?

 

She asks the man. The man says it is measured in the amount. The man keeps collecting, he tries to collect her too.

 

Where is happiness?

 

She asks the mother. The mother says it is in peace and security. The mother tries to shade her eyes.

 

Where is happiness?

 

She asks God. God says happiness is with Me. God smiles and winks and reclines in his chair.

 

Where is happiness?

 

She asks the mirror. The mirror asks back, but she doesn't know...

 

Happiness is not in the question.

 

Happiness is not in the answer.

 

Where is happiness..........?

A Wicked Change

Book Six in the Beneath the Veil Series will be available on Amazon February 13th, 2015. Just in time for Valentine's Day!

     As a wereferret, Wheeler's chief pleasures in life have always been napping and being sneaky. But things have changed since the Sodalitas came out of the closet and lifted the Veil between the monsters and mortals. Now he's developed two new obsessions: stealing cars, and stalking Sophie.

     Sophie is fully aware of Wheeler's strange penchant for spying; she can sense when someone is looking at her, a gift she received when the Veil lifted. And with the new Eyenet system of cameras that the Sodalitas installed throughout the  realm, Wheeler can (and does, weirdo...) watch Sophie's movements day and night.

     But a warning that Sophie's life is in danger sets Wheeler on a mission to save his dearest love...whether she likes it or not.

    Sophie believes that she can take care of herself. Something that she's proven time and again since going on the run a year ago. So what if it requires more than a little thievery to make ends meet? If that Hood character could get a gold star in the history books for robbing the rich to feed the poor then so should Sophie, because she was dirt poor at the moment.

    Eventually Wheeler's gift at hacking the Eyenet proves too valuable a tool to pass up in Sophie's quest to end the threat against her and her mother. But things get complicated when the Queen of Fairy takes an interest in the pair and Sophie's true nature is revealed.

     Wheeler is offering Sophie a new life with him in the passionate night world, but the cost of losing her mother forever in exchange may prove too dear a price to pay.

     Eternal love hangs in the balance as Sophie fights to hang on to all that she holds dear.

The way to a man's heart (and to the end of a manuscript, and to the beginning of a bedtime story...) is through the stomach.

Have you ever been rolling through your schedule, knocking off the to-do list, grinding forward, maybe not smoothly, maybe with effort, but you're getting there then all of a sudden it happens?

Catastrophe.

Or divergence of monumental proportion.

Momentum stops. Progress stops. Life stops.

That happened to me four months ago.

Wow. A third of a year. Gone.

What happened to me? Probably not what happened to you. No one died. I didn't lose my job or get divorced. No force of evil intruded on my world and stole my security.

No. I got nauseous.

Brief backstory- My husband and I were hoping/planning/trying for another baby. In fertility terms we're practically ancient, nearing 40. But, magically, in July, it worked! Pink line! Plans falling into place! Another check on the life list, progress!

Then a few weeks later I got nauseous.

Morning sickness is blah. I had it with my first pregnancy. It sucks, but you learn to just set your fork down when it strikes, take care of the call, and sit back down to finish your meal when it passes.

That's not what I'm talking about.

Most of us have heard about the English princess and her bouts of terrible morning sickness. Hyperemesis Gravitas. It can be deadly. It's a state of nausea and vomiting that is so bad it can be life threatening. Lucky lady was cared for in a private hospital till it passed four months later.

I wasn't a lucky lady.

I was diagnosed with HG almost immediately as my weight plummeted. I almost can't recall clearly how I made it through the last four months. Everything is washed in a sort of green haze. Literally. There's a color to the world that shouldn't be there. And certain words trigger a sort of PTSD type reaction. Like - caterpillar. Shiver. Things I experienced during my struggle to survive this all-encompassing urge to vomit twenty-four hours a day still haunt me and bring a phantom return of symptoms when mentioned.

Nothing exists beyond the center during this terrible illness. The queasy stomach and shivering muscles. I was medicated at all times, and it worked just enough to keep me out of the hospital. But it didn't do much for normal functioning. I could barely talk and read with my daughter, let alone play at the end of the day. And writing? A schedule? I am actually laughing as I type this. Seriously, it's a joke. There is no creativity. No desire to do anything besides curl around that rebellious center and attempt to smother it.

So, after I published FANGIRL_15 I basically fell off the face of the Earth. And that's why. I was nauseous. But the monster has finally passed and I've crawled back out of the third level of Hell. I received an amazing review of my Veil series by the judges of the Writer's Digest 22nd Annual Self-Published Book Awards. 4 out of 5 stars! Such an honor. And their invaluable critique ended with the judge's personal hope to read more in the series. Blew me away. Couldn't stop smiling for an hour.

I regret the time I lost, but I'm back on track. Wheeler and Sophie's story, the sixth novella in the Beneath the Veil Anthology, was slated for release in October, but that obviously didn't occur. My schedule is reset four months back. I foresee a January release, but I also believe this edition is worth the wait. I'll have a cover reveal soon, along with a sneak peek at book seven, Jekyll and Hyde's story.

Thank you to everyone for your well-wishes during this difficult time and for continuing to make Beneath the Veil Anthology so successful.

The Cutter

Thunk.
Thunk.
Swing through the air,
Slice through the hair.
I don't care.
I don't care.
How deep is the brain?
Watch for drips,
Mustn't stain.
No more pain.
No more pain.
You can't break what I have broken.
You can't steal what I have given away.
There is no pleasure for you here.
Just walk away.
Walk away.

(Chloe Wright a.k.a FANGIRL_15)

FANGIRL_15

Chloe is in love with Lucien.

He’s enigmatic, compassionate, generous and intelligent. Likes classical music just as much as kicking ass and knows his way around a kitchen, though he’d never admit it. His Samurai swords are an extension of his personality and a lifetime of heartache has taught him to wield them unfailingly. He’s gorgeous yet humble and can’t see past his own scars.

Lucien feels deeply for his chosen family and is absolutely worthy of love.

Sounds perfect, right?

The only problem is that Lucien is a character in a novel.

The Dark Riders is one of the best selling paranormal romance series of all time, and it was destined to have eight installments, one for each of the brothers-in-arms. Lucien’s story was supposed to be book eight, where he’d finally find true love and live happily ever after. Except the writer died before his story was published. Worse yet, book seven was finished by some poser that thought killing off one of the main characters would bring a more modern twist to the finale.

Chloe is absolutely devastated by the news that one of her “friends” is dead and that the series is canceled. She has a quasi-nervous-breakdown at work and ends up falling asleep in the lounge. Her midnight escape from the locked office lands her in a deserted parking lot after hours where an unseen force has been waiting. Just. For. Her...

This supernatural assault strands her in an alternate reality where the Dark Riders are real and the horrible ending created by the publisher hasn’t happened yet.

Chloe decides that she’s been brought there to fix all of the storylines and tries her best to convince the monsters around her that she’s there to help. She ends up mangling their plots more often than not and now must race the waxing moon to find a way home before Lucien accidentally falls in love with her instead of his destined mate. The Fates are working against her as Chaos interferes and the truth about what really dragged her over threatens to destroy everything that Chloe holds dear.

The Appeal of Misery, and Why I Want to Give an Agent the Heimlich Maneuver

     Who are you?

     Who are you?

     Unlike Brian, who came up with that awesome essay in response to Principle Vernon’s question in The Breakfast Club, I have yet to find the short and sweet version of novel description.

     Agent Obi Wan: What is your novel about? Make sure to “intrigue” me in one paragraph or less.

     Unpublished Author: Okay, let’s see...It’s about the universal nature of greed...no! The empowering, healing, transformative nature of true love...no! It’s a reimagining of the creation story and theorizes why monsters really do exist... Ummmm... Boy meets girl on alien world?

     Agent Obi Wan: Unfortunately you have failed to capture my attention and I won’t bother reading your (clearly crappy) story. Thank you for your time.

     So, my attempts to woo an agent haven’t been quite that bad, but from the responses I’ve received I assume they’re pretty darn close.

     I have to admit, when it comes to describing a story I’ve written, I choke. Maybe because I’m so deep into the thing that I can’t make out the broader features anymore. I’m beneath the skin, no way to pull back and tell if my creature is pretty or not.

     What I’ve decided is that instead of continuing to bang my head on closed doors, I just need to find an injured agent. Nothing too serious, nothing that would keep them from, say, reading my novels while they recuperate or anything...

     See, I’ve had this fantasy of late, it goes like this: I’m in my hermit cottage in the mountains, á la Kathy Bates. Alone. And I see this little plane fall out of the sky, neeeow boom! I brave a howling blizzard to search for survivors and, low and behold, there’s one. The pilot, who just happens to be an über successful agent out for a spin in her new toy.

     I drag the unfortunate soul back to my lair...err...cottage and bandage her injuries. Alas, the storm has knocked out all radio communication.

     Do the phones work?

     No.

     Internet?

     NO! Ahem, no. We’ll just have to stick it out together for a few days. Don’t worry I’ll take care of you. Do you need something to read to pass the time?

     My manifesto would be happily dumped into her lap, after which I’d lurk around outside the door, listening for every gasp and giggle until (dun da daaaa!) she tells me I’m an incredibly brilliant writer and she’ll be crushed if I don’t allow her to represent me.

     Storm ends.

     Agent heals.

     Success and glory rain down on me. Huzzah!!!!

     Okay. That one miiiiight be a little farfetched, but I could totally randomly run across an unfortunate agent, choking on their chicken. People choke on dried out chicken all the time, right? And I’m sure that agents eat chicken now and then. So...

     A hungry agent will be eating their dried out chicken when, gasp! They start choking! Everyone is screaming and standing around with their iPhones, filming her demise while the helpless woman turns blue. Then I step in and, womp! Successful chicken ejector squeeze.

     “You saved my life! I’m eternally in your debt. How can I ever repay you?”

     Well, it just so happens that I have this novel I’d like you to read...

     Of course! I’ll begin it tonight!

     Yeah...

     So I’ve written a few agent queries without success. Who hasn’t? You haven’t!? Well, let me be the first to tell you that it’s about an eleven on the difficulty scale. I’ve tried using bits of my blurbs. Nuh uh. I’ve tried mysterious allusions to the deeper subplots. Yawn. First person perspective on the action. REJECT. Focus on the romance. Nope. I’ve even considered stealing the awesome reviews people have written for my self-pub’d books and using those. I seriously love the way readers see the story as a whole, and also hearing what part meant the most to them. I don’t know if anyone else has gotten this before, but when you write something with all of these little subplots and details, and someone gets it, recognizes the big picture, even better than you because you have to be so hung up on each individual piece, it’s magic! It’s the best gift, to see your story through someone else’s eyes.

     So how can I tell someone what they’re going to find in my story?

     It’s a New Adult/Sci Fi Romance, complete at 94,000 words. In it you’ll find a brain, and an athlete, and a basket case, a princess, and a criminal...

     Just read it.

     Read it!

     Read it, or I’ll break it off!!!!

     What does it say about the stress of query writing when a person would rather perform life-or-death exploits than write another letter? Yes, ye virgin query-er, it’s that bad.


     By the way, I heard there’s a bungee jumping expose being held in the Grand Canyon next weekend. I’ll be there with a giant net if anyone’s interested...

 

Self-Publishing Secrets

     I hope you aren’t here looking for the magic bullet of self-publishing success. The secrets I’m revealing here aren’t the how-to’s of self-publishing, because, seriously, there’s really no secret to that. Everyone and their grandma has a self-publishing guide on Amazon’s shelf. In fact, all you have to do is put “self-publishing secrets” in the title and it’s a guaranteed best seller.

     What I’m talking about are the real secrets.
Like:
     How much did you earn from self-publishing last year?
And:
     How successful are those blog tours?
And:
     How well do free promotions work?
Well, I’m going to tell you.

 

     The first thing I’d like to point out (and this is important for perspective, not just filler) is the fact that I am a hermit. Look back through my blog posts and Twitter feed and you’ll see that my offerings are sporadic at best. I’m not social. I’m jealous and guarded with my time. Even my dear family only sees me on a rare weekend when we all have magically synced schedules. To compound this genetic predisposition toward solitude, I was also born in the in-between age, when technology was becoming available to the yuppies and the rich kids that lived on the hill, but not everybody had seen a cordless phone yet. We didn’t grow up with technology. My TV was black and white as a kid (gasp!) because we were too poor to buy a color set, and black and white wasn’t totally abnormal at the time.

     You get the drift. I’m not comfortable with social media, THE NUMBER ONE tool for selling books.
     Strike one and two.
     The only reason why my reluctant approach to social media didn’t leave me with a third strike, dead in the water, is because I finish and publish my books. And the writing isn’t half bad.
I love writing. But not just any writing. I love writing about my worlds. My people that only I know and who I desperately want to share with others. Every spare moment that I can carve out for writing I devote solely to the creation of my novels. If I were to use that time to blog, or comment on other blogs, or chase bloggers for reviews, I wouldn’t have anything else to offer readers but blogs.
     But I decided that in 2013 I was going to give social media my best effort. Though I didn’t have the time for continual socializing, I was willing to invest in people who could, and try a (tiny) bit harder to be present myself.
     Here’s what I did-
I tweeted from my phone at least a few times a week.
I paid a company to take me on a blog tour.
I ran a Facebook promotion giving away a free iPad Mini.
I joined two Goodreads writer’s groups.
I subscribed to Netgalley for a month.
And I published five novellas in a series.
     How did all this work for me?
Tweeting-
     If a person’s success using Twitter is measured by the amount of re-tweets and mentions they receive, then it was a dismal failure. I mostly Tweeted release details, and sneak-peeks at upcoming cover art. I also did short blurbs from cool scenes in my books in the hopes of sparking some interest in them.
Fail.
     Everyone hates those. Wait, was that too sweeping a judgment? Okay, to be specific, I rarely got retweets of these Tweets, because, let’s face it, they’re basically ads and most people don’t like ads.
I also Tweeted about some writers and causes that I wanted to support, but my Tweets were clearly lacking the whipped cream and sprinkles that brings ya back for more.
     Bad Redhead Media gives some of the best advice that I’ve come across about using Twitter. Do I follow all of the amazing free advice she gives? No. Which is why Twitter doesn’t work for me. I’m a skulker, not a sharer. I read your Tweets. You don’t read mine.
     If you aren’t following Bad Redhead Media, do so NOW! She will deliver you from evil if you just obey…
     Here’s a link to her website http://badredheadmedia.com/
Blog Tour-
     One month, a couple dozen blogs, carefully prepared answers and blurbs, just watch the sales roll in. Right?
Wrong.
     I only have experience with one blog tour operator so I can’t speak for the entire species, but my tour was a rather dismal failure. The blogs that this company booked seemed to only run blog tours, one after the other, after the other, after the other… I can’t imagine what sort of following they have, maybe that’s actually what a lot of people look for? Natch. Not only was this promotion fairly generic looking, but most of the bloggers didn’t end up posting the interviews or other writing I provided. This may be the tour manager’s fault for not pushing it, or simply flakey bloggers, but it was disappointing and certainly not worth the money that I paid. I didn’t see any rise in sales to indicate a spike of interest from the blogs. Zip.
     But blogging does work. The key is finding people who actually like your novels and aren’t just accepting five bucks to paste you on their scrolling author page. When real people talk about you to their real followers, the response is boggling. A regular person wrote about my book, A Taste For Moonlight, on an average little blog last year and the boost in sales blew me away. I rocketed all the way to number three on Amazon’s best seller list and stayed there for over a month. Top 100, baby! Best feeling ever.
     The power of a single voice is far greater than you realize. I wish I knew who that girl was so that I could thank her. (Thank you!)
iPad Mini Giveaway-
     I also tried a Facebook contest to raise interest in my work, I’d heard great things about authors who gave away Kindles and such. (I’m laughing as I type this) Okay, how did it go?
I got 2,000 new likes on Facebook because of the like-gate on the contest. You couldn’t enter without clicking “like” first. Most of these people Tweeted about the contest for an extra entry, so for a month a couple thousand Tweets were flittering about with my name on them.
     Rise in book sales? New reviews? Tons of new Twitter followers?
     Nope. Not. At. All.
     The cost of the contest and the cost of the iPad Mini were definitely not returned. So funny and confounding, I’m still not sure why it didn’t work?
     My best advice on this one is, if you run a contest, find a way to make buying one of your books a no-brainer, like offering 50 extra entries for proof of purchase, or 100 extra entries for a link to a review of your book. And definitely do the like-gate if it’s on Facebook.
Goodreads and Shelfari-
     I joined a couple of their groups and did my usual sporadic participation. If you make friends and comment on posts often, you’ll keep your name on everyone’s mind. I notice people that regularly pop up in my updates and I remember them. Do people remember me? No. I don’t comment enough. I am a lurker, not a participator.
Netgalley.
     I joined a fantastic group of authors on Netgalley called Patchwork Press. They allow authors to buy month-long spots for a VERY reasonable price (under 50 bucks) instead of forking over the hundreds a private membership would require.
This was a promising one. I got a couple of new reviews out of my month long trial on a single title. It apparently works best with newly/soon to be published works, but really anything that a fairly new or self-pub’d author submits might find success.
     This one was worth it. http://www.patchwork-press.com/class-of-2013-2014/
     I’ve self-published five Paranormal Romance novellas for $.99 each, and three full length NA SciFi novels for $2.99 each on Amazon, and offer them on Prime. I also have the anthology of Par/Rom novellas as a single volume for $3.99. This one isn’t Prime and I have it for sale on Kobo, Nook, Barnes & Noble, and Smashwords.
     Most of my sales come from Amazon. I’ve sold only a handful of books on Barnes & Noble.
I believe I averaged between 30-40 hours a month on writing and the little I did with social media to promote myself. If you can devote more time to writing, it will doubtless pay off exponentially as long as all of the following “IF’s” are checked off.
     IF you use Twitter correctly and Tweet about more than your own books, and IF you blog regularly and find regular people who will blog about you, and IF you run giveaways for real fans, and IF you join book groups and participate often, and IF you subscribe to Netgalley and submit your book for professional review, and IF (the biggest IF) your writing isn’t half bad and you produce new work regularly, then you can reasonably assume you’ll do at least as well as I have by self-publishing.
     Now, I don’t know how these and the following numbers stack up with other self-pubs because most authors are extremely tight-lipped about such things. I know that for me, finally typing them is a bit daunting. My husband even asked me whether I was “really putting it all out there.”
     Yep. This is the stuff that I wanted to know when I began this journey. Mainly, how successful can you be with self-publishing? Now that I have this knowledge, I feel obliged to help the people who haven’t gotten here yet.
     So, (deep breath for courage) this is how the hermit did-

     My total sales in 2013 were $27,975.47 and the commission I received on that was $9332.91

     I sold about 25,000 books.

     Boom. There it is.

 

 

And the winners are...

Thank you so much to everyone that participated in my contests! The iPad Mini went to Maria G. in California. Congratulations, Maria!

The Photo contest ended in a tie between two submissions (Yikes! Unprepared much?) Both participants submitted two photos each so we decided to use their second photo to break the tie, settling the score by one vote. Congratulations Lori!

I hope that everyone had fun playing. I greatly appreciate all the support I received during my launch party.

See you all soon with more tales from Beneath the Veil.

Free iPad Mini Contest!

My free iPad Mini contest will begin October 1st and end October 31st with the drawing held November 1st.

Enter to win!

Receive extra entries for submitting a creative photo of you reading your copy of the Beneath the Veil Anthology.

Vote or submit your photo here. 

Official rules:

Like the Aimee Roseland Facebook fan page and receive one chance to enter. Bonus entries awarded for tweeting, sharing with friends, and participating in our photo submission contest. One iPad Mini will be awarded by third party random drawing on November 1st, 2013. $50 Amazon gift card will also be awarded for best photo submission. Photo must include an image from the Beneath the Veil Anthology: cover, words, etc. No restricted images as per Facebook rules. Enter as many photos as you like, one per day, vote on your favorite once per day. Photo with the most votes will receive a $50 Amazon gift card. Five extra entries will be awarded in the iPad Mini giveaway per Facebook user's submission.

The Average Woman, The Alpha, and The Anti-Hero

Most writers have a dream. It usually involves a home office and a self-set schedule and freedom. What it doesn’t include is a frantic scramble to adapt to current sales trends and the retrofitting of a completed manuscript into the mold of what’s hot now. No, now. No! Right NOW!!!

To get the office in the house, you have to make sales. To make sales, you have to write what a decent portion of buyers read. That’s why we’re seeing a thousand knock-offs of the Fifty Shades of Grey series.

And it works.

Readers are eating it up. I just discovered a woman whose first two self-pub’d novels are selling at number one in their category just a month after publication on Amazon. I only read the teasers, but that’s really all I needed to find: first person writing from the female realtor’s perspective, a sex-driven alpha male forcing her out of her comfort zone, and even a special necklace thrown in for good measure. Yikes.... My biggest problem with this sort of formulaic writing - other than the borderline plagiarism - is...well...that I can’t do it.

I read an interview with one of my favorite authors a few years back. The interviewer was asking her how she did it, how she came up with such fresh ideas and exciting plot twists.

At that time I was still unpublished, still holding a notebook full of half-finished scenes and no completed manuscripts. I was on the edge of my seat, hoping for a gem, some miraculous Aha! tip that would show me how to put it all together. For years afterward I carried the disgusted sense of betrayal I’d felt upon reading her answer.

"It just...happens. Like I’m channeling them, just recording their life."

What!? Channeling? You’ve got to be kidding me!
Fast forward six years. Ask me how I get my ideas for my novels.

Okay, so I might not say channeling, but I understand now what she meant. When I’m writing hot, when the scene is flowing, things just happen. I didn’t plan for them to take the left fork in the road, but suddenly they did and it leads them into an unanticipated adventure that becomes the defining moment in the story.

I’m one of those kinds of writers. I begin with a glimpse of my characters: A magician on a stage. I see his eyes staring out at the crowd; see his gaze shift to the balcony. There’s a woman standing alone... And POW! I have to write their story. Yeah, like that. The story just builds itself. If I tried to write a knock-off of FSoG it would end up with the heroine dropping the sex-alpha out of a helicopter and flying off with a thief who was prone to wearing stolen earrings and finger-less gloves.

I just can’t do it, captain!
But what about the dream? The house and the office? How do I achieve success as a writer when I don’t want to write what everybody else is writing?

If you’re like me, you’ve realized that the dream is a bit bigger than the office. It includes what’s been typed on the screen of the computer on the desk. The stories that we writers have been constructing since we were kids.

The stories are the heart of the dream.

So, now the question is: how to write what we want to write, but still make sales?

I’ve read a ton of books on writing, and self-publishing, and marketing. I’ve read articles on demographics and sales trends. One piece of information that stood out to me, and that I’ve tried to take to heart, was to figure out what you like to write then figure out who likes to read that type of story.

This is where the title of my post comes into play.

I write romance novels. So the numbers I’m going to give you will apply to that chunk of readers. After pouring over a bunch of information compiled by the RWA and the Federal Bureau of Statistics I found these stats-

The average woman who reads romance novels is 42. 35% of readers are between the ages of 13 and 34 and 51% are 35 and over.

She is 5’4" and about 165 pounds.

She probably has had at least one child and is in a marriage or other long-term relationship.

She reads up to 5 novels a month and probably thinks that an e-book priced below $2.30 isn’t as good quality as those priced at about $3.00, but $.99 books are good to pass the time when she’s maxed out her budget.

30% of romance readers choose paranormal romance, but contemporary-mystery-romances are still the most favored sub-genre.

Her preferred method of finding new books is via recommendation by a friend, or seeing the physical title on a bookshelf at the store. She will also go back to an author who she’s read in the past if she enjoyed one of their titles before.

She probably won’t visit your author page, or follow you on Facebook, or go to a live event you throw, or watch your YouTube trailers, or follow your blog, or tweets. (But, 40% of romance readers will)

25% buy new novels on Amazon. 4% from Barnes and Noble.

Okay, can you see her in your mind? Is she basically you? Or probably you in a few years? You know this woman at the very least. You understand her.

You are writing for her.

Well, I’m writing for her. You might be focusing your writing for the twenty-something with no children who is highly connected to social media. That young woman is a powerful player. Connect with her, connect with the world.

Knowing who you're writing for is vitally important for marketing purposes. It's also a key component in figuring out where your niche is in the writing world.

And now that we have our heroine, let’s give her a hero.

The Alpha-

Just the name alone conjures up his image: Big. Dominant. Uncommunicative. Possessive. Powerful. Aggressive. Brooding. Stubborn. Injured. Spoiled. Hot.

Our alpha can take a beating and dish one out as well. He will kick ass for the woman he loves and take no prisoners. The alpha doesn’t talk about feelings. He doesn’t ask for anyone else’s opinion. He is gruff and masculine and has a past best left behind him. He will dominate our heroine, rescue her, possess her. She will be very feminine next to him. No matter her strengths, he will be stronger.

The alpha male is most attractive to alpha women.

Considering half of all romance readers have a master’s degree or higher, and live during a time when men are treated as equals and often stay home to raise the kids while she works, that’s not terribly surprising.

She wants to be a woman. She wants someone else to bear the burden of survival. She wants an escape.

The Anti-Hero is a bit more complex.

He often shows a wider range of emotion, especially humor and love. He has vulnerabilities, and vices. The anti-hero is physically attractive, but his strength is usually found in his wit and cunning rather than brute force. The heroine has a greater chance of rescuing him a time or two during their courtship than simply allowing him to drag her out of one pothole after another. The anti-hero gives our heroine the opportunity to be great.

This guy is most appealing to women who’ve run into the glass ceiling.

In today’s society women are too often compared to supermodels and movie stars. They can struggle their entire life and never measure up to these impossible ideals. They can work as hard (or harder) than their male counterpart and never receive the same recognition as him in business and academics. She is running a race she can never win and she’s more than ready to be the hero for once.

So, now that you know who you’re writing for, what next?

First, you need to decide if you are capable of riding the bandwagon. If you can spin out a super-similar story to the ones that are soaring high on the best-seller list then more power to you! The reason all of those knock-offs are selling is because that’s what readers want to read. If you can do it well, you’ll be successful, and there’s no better feeling than watching those sales numbers climb and climb, and reading a boatload of five star reviews.

Nirvana!

If you’ve decided that you can’t stick to the formula, welcome to the club! For me, writing is far too organic to attempt anything more structured than a general outline (which usually falls by the wayside halfway through anyway).

When you love what you’re writing, or better yet, who you’re writing, the words just flow. Seriously. And if you have a favorite author, I bet you’ll notice that when it gets down to brass tacks, their hero’s all fall into one category or the other.

No way, this one was a vampire and this one was a human and this one was....

Stop. Think about it. Yes, they are all very different characters, but at their core? Most successful writers write what they love. And they usually love one male type, or the other.

I’m definitely drawn most to the anti-hero. He’s my dude. And no matter how hard I try to write about the alpha, he always evolves when I’m not looking into my anti-hero again.

I love writing. But I’ve found that when I try to force my characters into a mold they don’t fit in, I stop loving it as much. The words dry up and I stumble along, miles behind my daily word goal, wishing my anti-hero would come along in his homemade blimp and rescue me from the desert...

It all comes down to this:

Know who your audience is.

Figure out who your hero is.

Accept that recognition for all your hard work may take time.

And...

Start channeling.

　

Summer Love

Dawn pours a gilded light through the night clouds,
Round and grey and filled with stormy promise.
The summer bats weave a wobbly path to their hidden roosts,
They know the day's sterile sun is best avoided.
Moist, scented air rises from the shadowed lawns,
The musky pine bows,
The leaves and flowers.
Few disturb this peaceful quiet.
This moment between night and day when you realize you're dreaming.

How Science Supports Reincarnation Or: Why I believe you were once Joan of Arc

Instinct.

It’s the scientific explanation for why animals can perform complex tasks without training or guidance.

 

Instinct is a word that’s thrown around a lot, “He instinctively recoiled.”, “I went on instinct and distrusted him.”, “It was basic instinct.” But when you stop to really consider what’s being said, the implications will shock you. True instinct is something incredibly amazing. We’re talking about cellular memory; the ability of a single cell to remember a complex experience and pass that memory on through generations.

 

Like the Monarch butterfly. Monarchs make an inexplicable journey every year from North America down to Mexico. These little creatures are born with the knowledge of how to get to their overwinter sites, though each generation has never experienced the migration before. This is an extremely complex memory to pass on, perhaps more so even than animal mating dances and emotive facial expressions. They are born knowing how to travel over the Earth. They are born with the memory of their predecessor’s experience. Incredible.

 

We all know that every piece of us has been recycled countless billions and trillions of times. Every part of us was here from the firmament of the Earth’s first eons as a planet, to the sultry days of the dinosaurs. All the matter that makes up our bodies right now has always been affected and entrenched in this world. If you look at the palm of your hand, you must realize that each cell and hair and drop of blood you see was once a kernel of wheat, a snowflake blown through a Russian palace, and the salt on a dolphin’s back. The people we are now were formed from all the people and creatures that came before us. From the bodies of our parents, then from the things our mothers ate. And every carrot, lima bean and sip of water that she had was passed through something else as well. When Victor Lindlahr said, “You are what you eat,” he wasn’t kidding.

 

Now consider that you are what you breathe. The theory of Caesar’s Last Breath states that if you take into account the volume of air held within a human’s lungs and equate that with the volume of air on the Earth and the passage of time, that at this point we’ve all breathed in at least one molecule of the breath that Julius Caesar of Rome released as he died on the steps of the Senate. In fact, all the air we breathe has passed through all the people and animals and oceans and plants and dinosaurs and...well, you get the picture, everything that ever existed. DNA has been retrieved from specimens that are thousands of years old. It’s no great stretch to imagine that we’ve been breathing in all sorts of bits and pieces of DNA from some pretty amazing sources our entire lives.

 

All living organisms contain DNA, including our friend the Monarch butterfly. DNA that carries instructions on how to build a new human or butterfly or lima bean. It also obviously stores important information such as the flight path the Monarchs should take down to Mexico. It isn’t a leap of logic at all to infer the possibility that the fresh DNA we consume every day could pass its encoded memories on to us. We must at least agree that the experiences of our parents and their parents and so on could be, like it is with the Monarch, passed intact down through the ages as a key part of evolution. If a flight path can be recorded and passed on, then so should a more simple experience, like, say, the moment you saw your husband returning from the war. So what if it was a war that occurred one hundred and fifty years ago? If a part of you was there, then why couldn’t that memory still be contained in the DNA you carry?

 

The simple answer is: it can.

 

So when you tell me that you can remember a dark tent, lit only by candlelight, filled with men who stand shivering and wet with the rain, and when they speak to you it’s in a language that rolls in familiar tones, and that the name on their lips is Joan...

 

I believe you.

 

 

This is for all my disbelieving friends out there who think that denial of faith in a deity precludes having faith in reincarnation. There ya go.

 

 

Postcard from The Hermit on the Hill

I was thirteen when I discovered books. (Hold a sec while I find the key that puts an echoing emphasis on that word...hmmm...Italic? Not quite. Bold caps? Close...) BOOKS!!!!!! There, that's better.

I was a painfully shy person for most of my life. Never really connecting with other people and more concerned with homework than watching TV. I was a hermit and I liked it that way. Then I discovered books and....well not much changed other than my greater enjoyment of my hermitood.

Books became the center of my universe the summer of my mother's accident. She'd shattered her sacrum and was flat on her back for a year. That injury changed our lives in so many ways. Turning me into a reader was just one of them; the other changes will have to wait for another blog. To keep my mom company, slash, entertained, slash, sane I started reading to her. We took turns reading that first novel since I wasn't terribly interested in the love affair between a Native American and the white woman he kidnapped and mistreated (which was apparently leading to their imminent love?!?), it was called Ghost Fox. While I was reading it, the story was just a bunch of words. When my mom read it? Wow....

I remember very clearly waking up from the trance-like state I'd fallen into when she finally stopped speaking. I had been in the story's world. Literally. I was there. It was incredible. From then on books were my everything, just like that. You could pay me in books (one guitar = one year's subscription to Harlequin Book Club). You could count on a book being somewhere within five feet of me no matter where I was standing. I began speaking in Romance-ese with the word "cheroot" falling out in some conversation, and inciting laughter from an aunt that still haunts me today.

I was my mother's constant companion, as well. I'd run to the library to rent books once we burned through everything my older sister had. Flowers in the Attic (the entire series), Kathleen E. Woodiwiss (her entire shelf), Julie Garwood (The Lion's Lady!!! My heart still melts...) anything and everything with romantic swirling letters down the spine got grabbed.

I read a minimum of three books per week for ten years. Romance then horror, then paranormal and....well everything else eventually. The point is that reading was my recreation. That's why it was so natural for me to eventually transition into writing. I had so much inspiration for so long.

What I didn't have was experience with the social aspect of marketing my work once it was published. I didn't have a Twitter account, or Facebook, or a blog until I realized that you can't simply publish a great story and be successful.

I'm sure this is a common theme, other people must struggle with the whole gratuitous blabbering thing that we do on Twitter and whatnot. Chasing down readers. Man, back in the day? Readers were the ones on the hunt. When the internet eventually became the place to go for information, and I'd read everything in my chosen genre that was being offered, I'd scan through websites searching for a list of all the books containing certain subjects in the hopes of finding something new and awesome.

Now you can't blink without brushing up against a dozen new authors. The market is saturated with self-published novels. There are so many out there for readers to choose from that unless you were born with a bullhorn in your mouth, they're more than likely going to float right past you on their way to the next bright flame.

So what's a shy little hermit to do?

Try, I suppose.

Just keep trying to call out above the babble, I am here, I AM HERE!!!!


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Aimee

Faith and a Dragon

I was once a religious bigot.

A childhood spent choking on the religion my parents liked to cram down my throat had soured me to the faith so many others found solace in. I saw religious books as instruction manuals for the directionless. How-to guides for finding a purpose.

Secondhand faith. That’s what I secretly called it.

I even laughed at them and their TV commercials that seemed to say, “Believe like me and you’ll be happy.”

Yep, I thought that was pretty funny. Until I saw the dragon.

Now, don’t read this like a story about something that couldn’t happen here. Read it from your true vantage point. This is a world where satellites can see through your bedroom window well enough to read the results of your pregnancy test. Where the most frightening boogieman is the guy down the street who keeps trying to lure your son inside his house. A world where there are no great secrets or mysteries anymore. Nowhere to hide. Your world.

I’ve forgotten the reason I was in the desert that night, probably just because I could be, or there was nothing good on TV. I think I was searching for something. Maybe the stars, maybe the fear of dark things. I needed something to replace the emptiness of another night of worthless anonymity.

That’s when I looked up.

It came in low from the north. I felt it coming before my eyes caught its shadow against the stars. There was a sort of vibration that became the sound of rushing wind, then the whoosh and crack of its great wings striking the air.

When something unbelievable happens, your brain does strange things. It begins to offer your conscious mind a variety of explanations; that’s a plane, a glider, a giant bird, a space ship, a remote controlled dragon, a dragon, not a real dragon, a dragon, A DRAGON!

Adrenaline and wonder and terror rushed through me like magnetic waves drawn to this incredible thing in the sky. I could see the shine of the stars off its scales, the wetness of its eyes as it stared into the distance behind me, the ripple of muscles as it swam through the currents of desert air. The moment before it passed above me I felt the heat of it. Then the heat became its scent.

I wish I could describe to you what it smelled like. I wish there was a comparison so that I could tell you, “Smell this, it’s the smell of a dragon.” But I can’t. There was so much sensation in that scent, like joy and freedom. So many flavors, like the ocean and a desert storm, moss and shadows, a baby’s breath and burning wood. But really it was like none of those things. It was dragon. I inhaled so deeply I felt faint with it. Then it was above me, its heart beat was so close that I felt its pulse through my chest like a drum.

Then it passed. I spun to watch it, but a moment more and it was gone, drifting away into the dark.

There should have been more. It happened too quickly. I didn’t see enough, I didn’t feel enough, I didn’t smell enough, I needed more. It couldn’t be over. That can’t be it.

But that was it. Silence. Nothing more.

My cell phone was still in my pocket. No video taken of the event. No way to relive it.

Getting home that night was a blur of stop lights and street lights and startled faces. I called my family, I woke my neighbors. The sensation I recall most is relief. I knew without a shadow of a doubt that I had seen a real live dragon. Nothing else would ever be depressing again. War, murder, extirpation; how utterly insignificant! There were dragons in the world; everything else would turn out right in the end because now I was sure that we knew NOTHING. How liberating! Our understanding is not important! The world is full of magic; no one needs to be afraid of the unknown again.

In the morning my sister came over. I told her everything, every detail. I wanted to share every feeling I had with her, I wanted to see the wonder in her eyes.

What I saw was doubt.

I felt I should try harder; I needed her to feel it, what good was all this joy if I couldn’t share it. I knew she was trying to believe me, she wanted to, she didn’t think I was lying, but she couldn’t feel the same rush of certainty that seeing it had given me.

I thought perhaps I should write it down. I could find the best words to show people that it was the truth. And in that moment the true gift that came from what I had seen became apparent.

I had experienced something utterly life changing. Something that changed my whole perception of human existence, and I wanted to share it.

It still makes me laugh even as I write this. I was inspired to do what every other religion has done for thousands of years. What I had always sneered at and mistrusted. I wanted everyone else to believe what I had seen. I wanted to share the joy of my faith and see it in the eyes of the people around me. Not to control them as I had always imagined religion's ulterior motive to be, but to liberate them. No more worthless anonymity, never be afraid again!

I can imagine what might have happened in a hundred years. The description of my every move up to the point I saw the dragon repeated in ceremonies; careful attempts to capture the magic of that moment. There would be groups of people looking in a certain direction, wearing certain clothes, perhaps touching their necks and brushing their arms as I had done.

I know what I saw. I still believe it was a real dragon, though the scorn of others has stolen some of the joy away. Now instead of sharing my story as an experience to be believed, I share a small insight on human nature instead.

When any person truly believes in something that can’t be proven, they are compelled to share their faith in it. We want to see our truth in other eyes so that we don’t have to try as hard to keep it real. When multiplied it becomes big enough to live on its own. We’re all the same. All of us.

Think about this: What would you do if you saw a dragon? Would you tell people? How would you feel if those you wished to share your joy with sneered at you?

We encounter people every day who are searching for faith. It can be a fragile thing. We are compelled to surround ourselves with others who believe the same way; it strengthens us. So the next time someone tries to share their beliefs with you, no matter how bumbling or defensive their explanation, have patience.

They have seen a dragon.

The Bleeding Cup

Into the bleeding cup is spilled,
The burning essence of human life,
Our liquid constitution,
So quickly cooled beneath the breath,
Of ambivilant space,
And the freedom to drain away...


A lovely old poem I rustled up from my angst filled teen years.

My Mother Who Killed

     My memory begins on that day.

     There was a life before the killings, but the memory of that one night seems to have eaten up the space that those other experiences once existed in.

     My life begins at five years old in a dark parking lot by the sea.

     I’m in my mother’s arms. I’m tired and my cheek is resting on her shoulder. She smells like her going-out perfume and her body is soft and warm.

     My daddy is walking behind us, rifling through his pockets for the car keys. He smiles at me when I catch his eye.

     “Hello, hellooo.” A man’s voice drawls. I spin around to see who is talking to us.

     Mommy squeezes me tighter and keeps walking. “Hello.” She replies. Her voice is short. The way she sounds when she talks about the people on the news who make her mad.

     “Hey, hey, don’t rush off.” The stranger says and my mommy stops suddenly.

     I don’t want her to stop. I want to tell her to take me home, but the words are stuck in my throat.

     “Come on guys, we have our baby with us.” My daddy says.

     Suddenly I’m scared, because I know then that my mommy and daddy are scared.

     That’s when the memory starts to change. Things slow down, sometimes even freezing on a single image. My psychologist said that that’s normal during stressful situations. The rush of adrenaline causes memories to imprint more clearly. It can distort those memories as well, making some parts more prominent than others.

     “You do have a baby with you, a pretty little girl. Hi, pretty girl.” The man says more, but I can’t remember the words. My five year old mind only knew that the man said he was going to hurt me. I remember a burning sensation up my back. It was the physical sensation of terror. That feeling would have meant the rising of my hackles to scare off an enemy in primordial days. But on the back of a little girl, it only translated as terror. Terror that my mommy and daddy couldn’t protect me from the men who’d suddenly invaded our sleepy evening.

     In that endless moment, my whole world changed. If what came after hadn’t occurred, that change still would have. Because in that moment I knew that monsters were real and that I wasn’t safe anymore.

     I can’t imagine why they did it. What did they feel as they stalked us through the parking lot? What did they talk about? Did they have a plan for who would do what? Those questions will go unanswered. Those men are dead and can’t tell me why.

     As the man’s words hung in the air, and the heat crawled up my back, I lifted my eyes slowly, so slowly, up to my father’s face.

     Then my mother exploded.

     I know she couldn’t really have exploded, but my memory isn’t affected by logic. It tells me that an explosion burst off of her, not that air rushed past me as I was thrown to my father. There was a sonic boom, not her bellow of ‘RUN’ and my tiny racing heartbeat filling my ears.

     Then I see my father’s face as he catches me. It’s ‘The Scream’ by Edvard Munch. It is a caricature of my father’s face. Eyes open wider than eyes could really open, and his mouth a crooked black cavern in a face too pale to be alive. It was horrifying to me. And that moment seemed to last incalculably.

     My father caught me to him, but he didn’t run. He just stared beyond me.

     I turned slowly, slowly. The air was thicker than jello, and time was bound in rubber. The seconds lasting minutes, and the minutes hours. And I knew that they were hurting my mommy.

     My father couldn’t stop me from looking, he was frozen, unaware of the hard, clutching hands he held me with.

     Then I saw her. My mommy.

     One of the men was already dead by the time I landed in my father’s arms and spun to see her. She’d tackled him, grabbing hold of his head and falling with him. She broke his neck, spun his head around and left him staring sightless on the ground. She was on top of the second one by then, biting his throat out. The third man was standing above her, his legs wide apart as he stabbed her over and over. She didn’t even flinch. When he kicked her off of his friend, half of the the throat she was biting came with her.

     The man seemed to freeze when he saw what she’d done. Everyone was frozen except my mommy.  She sprang at the last man from the crouch she’d rolled to. The top of her head hit him between the legs. To my young mind, it looked like a bull lifting an awful matador, like on the show my daddy watched. My memory almost tells me that it was a bull and not my mommy. But I remember right. It was her.

      The man went down with a strangling sound, no scream. The fight became eerily quiet. She punched him over and over in the face, thunk thunk thunk. Her arms seemed to have those spinning cartoon tracers around them. I’m not sure where that part of the memory came from, maybe the tears in my eyes or some embellishment added later by a child’s mind trying to make sense of what I saw.

     He caught her arms, giving up on the knife in his instinctive need to stop the beating. Without pause she threw her head down like a hammer, over and over. Crushing his face in.

     Then she stopped and turned to each of the men in turn. They didn’t move. She turned to us. “Are you okay?” I see her lips move, but I can’t hear her. I don’t realize that I’m screaming. Her face is a mask of blood.

     My daddy squeezes me, “It’s okay, baby, it’s okay.”

     He doesn’t go to my mommy.

     “Mommy!!” I scream.

     She crawls toward me and collapses. My daddy finally rushes to her.

     Everything leading up to that moment was a blur of time compared to the wait for the ambulance. My daddy ran with me across the parking lot and left my mommy alone on the ground. He called the police on a payphone and held his hand over my screaming mouth so that he could tell the dispatcher where to find us. He finally dropped the phone and ran back to her. I somehow thought she’d be gone, but she was still there, lying face down with the three men surrounding her.

     My mommy smiled at me when we got back. She reached for me, but I was too afraid to touch her, clutching on to my father’s side. My daddy said he didn’t know what to do, and he was crying. I was crying too, my throat raw from screaming and my jaw sore from being locked open with the noise. She quietly told my daddy how to push on the holes in her back, and encouraged him until her breath didn’t work anymore. It came in gasps, then quick pants, then a whispery hiss until it stopped entirely.

     Then he started crushing her chest. I know now that he was trying to save her, but at the time it seemed that he was pushing too hard, trying to wake her up. Hurting her when she was already hurt. He didn’t have time to explain as I yanked on his shirt, screaming for him to stop. He shoved me away and kept working.

     He might as well have set me adrift, alone in the universe. I was suddenly by myself in the dangerous darkness. Abandoned by my father and unable to reach my mother. I cannot convey the total panic and devastation I felt, sitting by my father who had pushed me away.

     The sirens whined softly in the distance and my father started screaming ‘HELP! HELP ME!’ 

     Then I screamed for help as well, repeating that word was all I could do until there were lights flashing over us and people running. They finally pushed my daddy aside, asking questions, so many questions. My daddy grabbed me up and cried into my neck.

     It begins to get blurry at this point. I remember them loading my mother on to a gurney and taking her away. I remember the bright lights on stands that the police set up around the parking lot and the white sheets over the three men on the ground.

     My father talked to a policeman about what happened and signed papers before they let us leave. I was afraid to be alone in the back seat, so my daddy let me sit up front where mommy usually sat. I remember waking up in my daddy’s arms as he carried me into the house and that our dogs were jumping around and happy to see us. I was mad at them for being happy when mommy was hurt and I kept asking my daddy when mommy would be home.

     “Soon, honey.” He said. But I could tell that he was lying.

     My mother survived the attack.

     I was able to visit her the next day in the afternoon. She was pale around the cuts and bruises on her nose and forehead, and her skin seemed to hang on her face. Her eyes were closed as my daddy carried me into her hospital room.

     When she looked at me, half the weight of all that had happened rolled off of my shoulders.

     “Hey, sunshine, how crazy is this? It’s like being in an adventure story. Come and cuddle me, sweetness. Tell me what you’re thinking.” She held her hands out and my daddy set me on the bed amidst the tubes and wires. She smelled like the antiseptic hospital soap and plastic tape. She was lumpy and my daddy fussed that I was going to hurt her. I remember trying to pull away.

     “Oh, please, like anything can hurt me worse than I have been.” Then she lifted me a little and flopped me onto her lap. She pressed her cheek to mine and sighed against my ear. It was our special hug. It was the way she held me at night, and I breathed in the scent of her perfume, still lingering in her hair. I swear you could have seen the cloud of pain and worry as a measurable part of my exhalation. It felt that thick and heavy. But with her words, she made it better.

     And every day she made it better still.

     She finally came home, stiff and limping, but alive. She always had a smile for me. Always had encouraging words. She was able to get me to talk about my feelings without making a big deal about it. She let me heal in my own way, and showed me that she was healed as well. There was no secret pain in the eyes she turned to me, no extra precautions when we played outside that kept the fear alive.

     It took me a long time to reconnect with my father. I blamed him for not doing more than he’d done. He’d just stood there and watched them hurt my mommy. How could I forgive that?

     But my mommy didn’t blame him. She and my dad were always laughing together and touching in simple ways. In time I allowed him back into our circle. My daddy loved me, and I loved him.

     I was shielded from the aftermath and all the legalities associated with killing in self-defense, and so, eventually, the incident slipped away.

     It was only as an adult that I went back to that night. I wanted to see what the news had said about it.

     I couldn’t find anything. I Googled every keyword I could think of. Nothing. I called the local paper and asked how I’d find back issues from that time. They hadn’t been converted from microfiche yet due to budget constraints, so I’d have to schedule an appointment to search through them. It was amazing to me that the story of that night hadn’t been bigger, more easy to find. It should have been a Lifetime movie, at least. But, no. It was like it never happened. And for a little while after that, I almost believed it hadn’t. Could I have imagined it? Or misremembered the details?

     I finally talked to my mom about it after I’d been mulling my questions over for a few weeks.

     “Mom? Can you tell me what happened? When you killed those men.” After I said the words, I wanted to take them back. I didn’t want to bring up anything that hurt her, and it had been so long since we’d talked about it that I wasn’t really sure how she felt.

     “Well...” She sighed. “We’d gone out to eat at the marina. We were walking to our car when we were approached by those men. They said they were going to hurt you in front of me, so I stopped them.” Her face tightened at the memory, and something jarred in me at her words. That sounded right. I remembered thinking that they were going to hurt me.

     She started over at that point. It seemed that she’d needed to just get the whole thing out quickly before she was able to go back and examine the details. She spoke of the long walk from the crowded restaurant, no parking for over a block. And how unprepared they’d been for the attack. She paused at that point and I could see that she was reliving the memories. How could I have wondered whether talking about it would hurt her? Of course it did. She’d just always seemed so strong to me, I forgot that she was a regular person.

     “Your dad was in therapy for years afterward. It was a two-fer.” She said, laughing. “Dad went to the shrink and brought home his advice for me.” Her teasing voice was meant to soften the painful revelation.

     “I have the original police report if you’d like to see it.” She offered. I accepted and let it drop for the time being.

     She gave me the report as promised along with a file that showed how the investigation had dragged on. There were a lot of notes from someone named Mike. He was keeping them informed about who the men were and other details that only a cop would be privy to. One of the notes had been underlined and written in all caps: ARRESTED ON CHARGES OF RAPE AND BATTERY.

     My father’s statement from that night was chilling, and matched my mother’s from the next morning. They saw the men coming. Saw the knives in their hands. They hadn’t simply threatened me, a five year old child. The quote was that they’d “slit my parent’s throats, and fuck me screaming while they died.” No wonder my mother had responded so animalisticly. The report said that she’d broken the first man’s neck. She’d grabbed him and spun his head around with her knee on his chest. It was something you saw in the movies and always wondered if it were really even possible to perform. Apparently, when your child was threatened, it was.

     The second one she bit in the throat, crushing his windpipe. That’s the one that I witnessed. And the third one died of brain trauma from being bludgeoned with her skull.

     It was astonishing. She was just a regular woman, not some kung-fu master or a super-hero in disguise. Back then she’d gone hiking with my dad and ran around after our dogs and me, but that was it. No weekend weight lifting or martial arts classes. Yet she’d somehow found an untapped strength to kill three armed men in defense of her daughter’s life. In defense of me.

     I thought back to all the years after the incident. The birthday parties, and sleepovers. The crafts, and cooking lessons, and quiet talks. All her goofy dance-moves and songs. How she always made me feel special and loved.

     How had she done it? How had she recovered from that? How had she managed to raise me in an atmosphere of acceptance and hope when something so devastating had occurred?

     When I questioned her later, she gave me the same answer she gave me each time I couldn’t fathom the depth of her forgiveness, or patience.

     “Because I love you.”

     Obviously there was more than that. My father’s support, and my grandma’s encouragement. She said that it was hard for her to sleep for a long time and that healing took years. But eventually she did heal, and deciding to get better was the first step.

     It wasn’t long after I brought up that night when my mother was diagnosed with terminal cancer. I want to write about the anger and helplessness I felt. But those words, those careful, simple words, can never convey the true depth of my emotions. To lose this amazing woman now? So young? After all she’d been though...

     She chose to fight for the extra two months the doctor promised her with medication. She wasn’t scared to die, she just wanted to live. She suffered the effects of the drugs with her usual aplomb. Smiling and teasing to the end. We were able to squeeze in three amazing trips to Europe and Hawaii before she was ready to let go. We had so many long talks with dad holding her in his lap, her scarf-wrapped head resting against his chest. But there weren’t enough. Could never be enough.

     In the end, when she was gone, I walked out and stared at the street in front of her house. Every detail of that day is burned into my memory with crystal clarity. It was early afternoon on a late summer day. I could smell fresh cut grass and the smoke from a barbeque. There were two little boys riding bikes up the street. A shiny red car drove by. Birds were calling from the trees and the sky was brilliant blue.

     I took it all in and was shocked that the world hadn’t even noticed that she was gone. That the most wonderful woman you could ever meet had died and all of these people didn’t care.

     The wind should have stopped blowing. The sun should have dimmed.

     But no one noticed. No one knew.

     That’s why I’ve written this. Not because the story of the killings should be read, that’s just the sensational part of a different story. But because, if I could just hold a snapshot of my mother up, not of her face, but of her soul, this incident would be it.

     She was... inexpressibly strong. Unconquerable in her love. There aren’t enough words to describe her. Remember when Russia didn’t have a word for peace? There needs to be a new word for the character of a person with all of her attributes.

     I hope that anyone reading this feels a twinge of loss. That they didn’t know her. That she’s gone.

     And I also hope that I can be as strong, and brave, and funny, and optimistic, and smart, and loving as she was one day.

     As my mother who killed. For me. For love.

     This story is a work of fiction based off of many of my and my families experiences.

     The woman that I lost that beautiful day was my grandma, Lois Margaret.